Own your circumstances
Stop thinking of it as somebody’s fault. Start treating it as your responsibility.
You’ve learned there’s nothing to be gained by looking for something or someone else to blame. You know you have everything to gain by taking responsibility, by doing something good and useful.
So do it. Break free from the useless need to blame, from resentment, from excuses, and break through into action.
Own your circumstances. Whether they are mostly of your making, or mostly not, step forward and make a positive difference.
Rehashing what this person could have done, what that person should not have done, will only drag you down. Get over it, and focus all your attention on what you can do now.
Own your circumstances, no matter what they are, or how they came to be. Own your circumstances, and from them you will make great progress.
— Ralph Marston